by K Fletcher

Missionaries and the Fourth

Let me tell you a little something about the Fourth of July. No one wants to come out with you. No one wants to meet with you. And then when you are in Nag Head, North Carolina, you get a hurricane.
I'm just kidding about the hurricane. Kind of.
It was actually a great day. We had some crazy last minute plans that got approved by the mayor via our Assistant Ward Mission Leader to set up a family history booth at the downtown fair! It was a lot of fun to make and it was a fantastic idea, because even ancestry.com was free for the weekend to help people find out if they are descendants of the 13 original colonies! So here is our set up:
We had a map for people to stick where their family was from and signs in English and Spanish. We had pedigree charts and family history cards, and even candy! There were supposed to be around 1,000 people at the activity.
And then the hurricane came. I was only kind of kidding.
This is us trying to contain our tent:
We only talked to about a dozen people until it was raining so hard that everyone just packed up and went home. Goodness, was it an adventure! At the end of it we didn't have a square inch dry.
But that night we had the opportunity to go with a family or two in our ward and watch fireworks over the beach.
It was a rough day, a wet day, and (with permission from our Mission President) a late day. But do you want to know what I learned?
You just keep walking. That's the point of this time. It's a time to prove yourself to God, that no matter what happens, no matter what God puts in your path, no matter the closed doors, the broken shoes, the hurricanes, or just the fact that you are tired, you keep on walking. And with Pioneer day coming up, what a lovely message.

"When I think of pioneers, tragic scenes come to mind: handcarts in blizzards, sickness, frozen feet, empty stomachs, and shallow graves.
However, as I learn more about that monumental trek I am convinced that along with those very real and dramatic scenes, most of the journey for most of the people was pretty routine. Mostly they walked and walked and walked.

When the pioneers broke camp each morning, the cattle had to be fed and watered, fires built, breakfasts cooked, a cold meal for noon prepared and packed, repairs made, teams hitched, and wagons reloaded. Every single morning. Then they walked about six miles before halting to feed and water cattle, eat lunch, regroup, and walk again until about 6:00 P.M. Then the routine of unhitching and watering teams, making repairs, gathering tinder, building fires, cooking supper, a line or two in a journal before dark, sometimes a little music, prayers, and bed at 9:00 P.M.

This week-after-week walking forward is no small accomplishment. The pioneer steadiness, the plain, old, hard work of it all, their willingness to move inch by inch, step by step toward the promised land inspire me as much as their more obvious acts of courage. It is so difficult to keep believing that we are making progress when we are moving at such a pace—to keep believing in the future when the mileage of the day is so minuscule.

Do you see yourself as a heroic pioneer because you get out of bed every morning, comb your hair, and get to school on time? Do you see the significance of doing your homework every day and recognize the courage displayed in asking for help when you don’t understand an assignment? Do you see the heroism in going to church every single Sunday, participating in class, and being friendly to others? Do you see the greatness in doing the dishes over and over and over? Or practicing the piano? Or tending children? Do you recognize the fortitude and belief in the journey’s end that are required in order to keep saying your prayers every day and keep reading the scriptures? Do you see the magnificence in giving time a chance to whittle your problems down to a manageable size?
President Howard W. Hunter said, “True greatness … always requires regular, consistent, small, and sometimes ordinary and mundane steps over a long period of time.”

You are a pioneer. Just keep on walking.

Con Amor,
Hermana Fletcher

by K Fletcher

Vroom Vroom to the Beach!

Before anything else, I have two more saying good-bye pictures. An ode to the McCoys who I love dearly and we've all established that Hermana McCoy is my honorary best friend:
And Eduardo who's just pretty cool (and can pretend to be taller than me in this picture. Hint: He's not)
Saying good-bye to these lovely Hermanas:
and Saying hello to my new companion!:
Meet Hermana Limb. Yep, I'm Senior Companion. That's fun, isn't it? Here in Nag's Head, North Carolina, we have a Spanish group in an english ward. But we have a really solid goal of building a branch. I'll let you know soon all that that entails.

Some miracles happened this week... I actually have two.
#1) The gift of tongues is real. Ever since coming here I feel so so much more comfortable in the Spanish language. But then Stake conference rolled around. And we didn't have a translator. So for two hours I translated ALL OF STAKE CONFERENCE. It was incredibly stressful, but actually really fun! Hopefully I'll be here for the next one and Eduardo and Fernando will get to hear an extreme increase in my vocabulary (right now it's pretty limited). Then, after all of that, we had to take the two hour car drive back to Nags Head. Our two spanish members rode in the car with us, so I had ANOTHER two hours of practice! 
#2) We were knocking doors, getting to know the area. Well, we needed to leave to go to a lesson, but we wanted to talk to one more person. We saw a caucasion man and a Spanish girl. We talked to the girl. When her parents walked out, it was a man, Juan Carlos, who has attended English class for some time but never had the right schedule to meet with missionaries. And he never gave his address. But we found him! He invited us in and we had a very short, powerful lesson about faith which led us to find out his wife was a member of our church! As we were leaving she asked what time our church starts. They have so much promise!

Nags Head is lovely. and it literally is just the beach. a tiny island that is very very long. If you are wondering about why it is called Nags Head, the first settlers were scavengers and so they would tie a lantern to a horses neck and let it walk up and down the beach like a boat in harbor so that other ships would crash into the island and could then be scavenged from. It's pretty cool. There are also cities called Kill Devil Hills, Manteo, Mann's Harbor, and Duck. Oh yes, and Kitty Hawk, where the Wright brothers took their first flight! 
And (drumroll please) the Mansion on the Beach (as our house is called by the whole mission):
I'm so excited to be here. It's going to be an incredible transfer and we are going to have miracles happen every single week. Keep your eyes open!
Con Amor
Hermana Fletcher

by K Fletcher

Plot Twist!

A series of dramatic things that happened this week:
BOOM: Transfer calls.
I was pretty well expecting them. I'm not sure why and I knew it was be to Nags Head, North Carolina. Nags Head is in a place called the Outer Banks (or OBX for short) and is a coastal region/peninsula. There are probably 7 Spanish members there, but apparently a LOT of potential.
BOOM: Senior Companion. I'll be with Hermana Limb. She's been on her mission for 4 1/2 months, and is just out of training.
PLOT TWIST: Our area is switching to Elders. Hermana Nyre will be going to Williamsburg and we'll get a total of 4 new elders here (a trio of elders, a set of elders, and a trio of sisters).

Here is the last district picture. Adios, Elder Smith! Good-bye to the last of endless P-Days!
BOOM: the Pinedas got baptized! It was an incredible experience and the spirit was so strong at their baptism. This is going to bless their lives immeasurably.
BOOM: I said good-bye to everyone. It was very sad. I'll be honest, I probably definitely cried when I received the call.
Hermano Faustino, our ward mission leader
the kids
Hermana Hernandez (and a passed out Thiago)
The Pinedas! (Except Kevin)
It's going to be a grand adventure down in Outer Banks. It's going to be terrifying to be senior companion, but what an incredible opportunity to grow!
I love you all and hope you are happy, safe, and well. Pray hard, work harder!
Con Amor,
Hermana Fletcher

by K Fletcher

The Moment You Love Your Area

There comes a point when nothing seems to be going right. When you want to sit down and cry and give up and not talk to a single person. There comes a point when you feel like you are worthless and like the entire world is against you. And in that moment we just have to stand back up again, rely on the Atonement of Jesus Christ, trust in his plan, and endure to the end and remember the words of Jeffrey R Holland:

"Don’t give up, boy. Don’t you quit. You keep walking. You keep trying. There is help and happiness ahead—a lot of it—30 years of it now, and still counting. You keep your chin up. It will be all right in the end. Trust God and believe in good things to come.”

This week I found my love for this area. I liked the people before, I liked the work and I enjoyed teaching. I was a little self-conscious of my Spanish. But now I love these people. I would do anything for them. When I see the people around me choosing the right and making and keeping covenants with God I can hardly contain my happiness. There was a family recently baptized and confirmed in our branch this week. I could simply think of all the happiness and joy they would receive. Eduardo came to church and exercised his priesthood in blessing the Sacrament and I couldn't stop smiling. A little girl we've been teaching for what seems like forever asked us when she could get baptized because she wants to follow Jesus. Any time we teach the Pineda children they pray that we can come back soon so they can learn about God.

The little things build us up and build the kingdom of God. It isn't the grand conversions that solidify the church. It isn't the visions and fire from Heaven that builds heaven in our homes. It is living the gospel a little bit every day that brings heaven into our lives. The blessings of the Celestial Kingdom are not reserved for the life to come. Men are that they might have joy, here, today. And when we can pick ourselves up and brush off the dust we learn how to apply the Atonement.

To end today I just want to share a video with you all that I was invited to watch by a good friend of mine. Because when times get rough, when a door slams on your face, when all your good times seem to be past, when you face rejection, when you face loneliness, when you feel like you can't go on, there is someone who has been their before who has his hand extended still. 


I love you all so much. I know I say that every week but know that it is true. I love you and I hope you can see your inestimable worth in every day. You are a child of God. You are my brother or sister. And I know you can do it. Si se puede.

Con Amor,
Hermana Fletcher

PS- Transfer calls are next Saturday. I have a pretty even chance of staying or going. Keep an eye out.